AA the healing hospital for the broken hearted. How does all that work? With my humble experience I will give this an abridged go. I am speaking here generally for the “WE” of recovery, not specifically, for I know there are many paths.
It starts with brokenness. Usually after years of self abuse and inebriation in one form or another. We have allowed the lower power to push us to a point of self destruction. We fall through the door of AA not really believing it will work, not even sure we have a problem. We come in because we don’t really know what to do but, we know we really need to do something!
Joining a worldwide organization?
We are not joiners, but here we must, in order to live. The isolation has to end! So reluctantly, if we are honest with ourselves, we join. If it wasn’t free, we would never join because at this point many of us are broke! When you think about it, because it is free, it’s safe. Why join, because we are much sicker than we think we are and need some serious time in therapy with others who suffer from the same malady. As they say, “This didn’t happen overnight and you ain’t gonna get better that way either.”
Sponsorship?
You can’t do this alone because it won’t work. For best results, I recommend same sex sponsors for obvious reasons. If your not sure about what sex you are, look between your legs and you will see your answer. Besides getting someone with some serious time and step experience, most of us need fathering or mothering to help us understand life values. Sponsors can help us understand very important principles we ignored or never received growing up.
Progressing through the steps
Twelve steps of true honesty to God’s healing flow. Taken one by one in order with a sponsor. Not difficult just require honesty, willingness and dedication. For best results undertake these “steps” as a new living lifestyle. It’s worked for millions, it will work for you.